Wedding Day nerves, How did you deal with them?

Mr Windscreen · Post by **Mr Windscreen** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 6:40 pm

I,m getting married!! on the 5th Sept. How did you deal with your nerves on the big day?

ScoobieWRX · Post by **ScoobieWRX** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 6:42 pm

Simple.....Don't turn up

Tk · Post by Tk » Mon Aug 24, 2009 6:46 pm

on my wedding day i was out on an old airfield playing with 1/5th scale petrol rc cars with my best man until about an hour before i was supposed to be there, once we realised the time it was a mad rush to get back/ cleaned up and suited, nerves kicked in when i was late and in traffic otherwise a walk in the park

good luck with your big day

Rob S · Post by **Rob S** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 7:32 pm

Strippers and alcohol.
Enough of both to feel guilty, this'll help take your focus off of what lies ahead.
Failing that, get rid of everything you cherish, have no time to do what you want, watch shit on telly, and become quite miserable. Once you're prepared for the life ahead, there's nothing to be nervous about.
Bet you're glad you asked now!
Good luck on your big day anyway!!

Gerry H · Post by **Gerry H** » Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:07 pm

What a pity the rep point thingy isn't still working. Rob's post is a prime example of a deserving case. Just Brilliant!

chrislandy · Post by **chrislandy** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 7:41 am

I drank 8 pints of local ale the night before, the nerves didn't kick in properly until the ceremony actually started

Post by **Stuart** » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:00 am

'How did you deal with nerves?'
I didn't. 16 years later we're still happy and still ignorant to the hassle that the day seems to present

Save yourself the nerves and go halves on the money that you would sling into it mate. You could buy yourself something very tasty instead!

Tk · Post by Tk » Tue Aug 25, 2009 8:05 am

stuart wrote:'How did you deal with nerves?'
I didn't. 16 years later we're still happy and still ignorant to the hassle that the day seems to present Save yourself the nerves and go halves on the money that you would sling into it mate. You could buy yourself something very tasty instead!

totally agree ,waste of money for a piece of paper
be easier to fill out a form online pay

Christian and Beccy · Fri Aug 28, 2009 12:38 pm

Harsh replies I think!

Maybe I am saying that because I get married the week after!

Each to their own, I know why we are doing it and we have planned a great day. I know we could have done it el-cheapo and used the money for something else, but we both wanted to and have saved for it, so we're not strapping ourselves up to do it.

Mr Windscreen, there's no point having nerves, just be excited about your day. I get butterflies every once in a while. I prepared early for my speech, so aren't too worried about that. We are doing most of the planning ourselves and are even making alot of the stationary and 'props' ourselves, so are keeping busy!!

Good luck!

Mr Windscreen · Post by **Mr Windscreen** » Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:01 pm

We,ve been planning for 2 and a half years. We also have done a lot ourselves, table plan, place cards etc. I,m a bit nervous and excited all at the same time.