a very black day

Bladerider · Post by **Bladerider** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:07 pm

Our thoughts are with you fella,

Condolences to you and your family mate,

Karen and James.

Spec'C'57 · Post by **Spec'C'57** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:48 pm

as everyone has said, Our thoughts go out to you at this very sad time..

BrianGT4 · Post by **BrianGT4** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 9:19 pm

Heartfelt condolensces to you and your family Duncan

I lost my dad to cancer 5 years ago so I know what you are going through

Our thoughts are with you

Brian and Cherry

madenglishman · Post by **madenglishman** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 10:14 pm

Very sorry to read this Dunc

Our Condolences to you and yours.

Dan.

323ian · Post by **323ian** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 10:14 pm

My thoughts go out to you and your family.

shooter · Post by **shooter** » Mon Dec 18, 2006 10:53 pm

Dunk, so sorry to hear your news, you and your family are in my thoughts and if theres anything I or anyone can do, you know all you need to do is ask.

God bless and take care

RX7 · Post by **RX7** » Tue Dec 19, 2006 6:55 am

No need to thank us mate, as Ben said, thats what friends are for.

Was very sorry to hear of your loss.

My condolences go out to you and your family.

Take care mate, you know where we are if you need us.

duncan · Post by **duncan** » Tue Dec 19, 2006 10:52 pm

man... today has been the hardest day of my life

Have been sorting out the date for the funeral, meeting with the funeral director, registering the death at the town hall in eastbourne, choosing a coffin, picking a cemetary, picking a plot..... and making calls to the main people like mortage company and bank.

Finding pension, life assurance details was hard as every important document would be interspersed with photos, notes and an enormous amount of emotion.

I am not ashamed to say that I could not hold myself together.

roey · Post by **roey** » Tue Dec 19, 2006 11:08 pm

as i am new to this fourm and not knowing you personaly duncan i can only imagine what you are going through and i think it takes a lot of guts to share this with us all and my sypathy goes out to you and all your family

Post by **Ben** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 7:05 am

Dunk, no one could hold it together under such circumstances, really feel for you mate.