Unhappy.

RX7 · Post by **RX7** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 8:30 am

Really sorry to hear that Ian,

Isnt christmas time wonderful....not !!!

Post by **Ben** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 8:46 am

Ian,

Just an Idea - get the army stuff on Ebay it will sell - also have you got any old toys - I've just sold an original Boxed Optimus Prime Transformer and Boxed Decepticon on ebay for

boxy · Post by **boxy** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:02 am

sorry to here about this Ian, thought you had yourself sorted on the job front. Hope things get better for you mate.

andycaca · Post by **andycaca** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:15 am

ian and paul, i feel both your pain!

i broke up with my gf of 5 years (well, she broke up with me really

) which resulted in me losing my home, job and moving back to suffolk. i went back to the house a week after the breakup to pick up some of my possessions and found some things there which proved she had been cheating on me (although she said to the contrary when we split up), so i kicked in the bedroom furniture and stole the awesome JVC stereo i bought her for her birthday

. i nearly took a breaker bar to his car parked in MY driveway, but i had calmed down a bit.

i found a job up here after 6 weeks, but was then laid off in september this year. this is where i got really pissed off and started up my own company.

moral: breaking up is hard, really REALLY hard. the only thing to compare it to is the sudden death of a loved one. it really is just like bereavement.
I took the easy option and buggered right off. my head was a mess so i went on a driving holiday back to lancashire to see all my old friends, stock up on the good times and shag some birds! this probably isnt cheering you up but the best thing to do is rely on your friends to cheer you up, dont hit the bottle too hard (alcohol is a depressant) and stay active, if only to keep your mind off her and that bastard

chin up, both of you

Post by **Stuart** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:36 am

Fantastic advice Andy :notworthy:

323ian · Post by **323ian** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 6:42 pm

[quote="murano3"]Ian,

Just an Idea - get the army stuff on Ebay it will sell - also have you got any old toys - I've just sold an original Boxed Optimus Prime Transformer and Boxed Decepticon on ebay for

Post by **Stuart** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 6:49 pm

Just had a chat to a guy that I know. He will be at Snetterton and I'll introduce you two tomorrow. Fingers crossed.

roey · Post by **roey** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 10:21 pm

where abouts are you ian see you carpenter need a joint cut on work top on kitchen we fitted our carpenter we use is ill,if you in armouth area will keep you in mind if you need the odd day here and there

323ian · Post by **323ian** » Sat Dec 09, 2006 11:28 pm

Thanks very much Stu. Will see you down there tommorow.

Roey,
I am afraid i am in the Swaffham area so its a bit far for me but appreciate the offer.
Cheers.

shooter · Post by **shooter** » Sun Dec 10, 2006 10:54 am

Sorry to here this Ian, not good at all, and wish I'd read this post earlier as I just spent 3 days just outside Swaffham doing motors and would have been more than happy to ask for help, if I get anything that way I'll give you a shout.

Paul, I feel for you big time, and know exactly how you feel... thats how my first marriage ended, but we weren't split up, just cam ehome early and caught her :x

Ben, so sorry to hear about your granfather, i hope things improve for him and wish you and your family all the best in your time of need.